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Understanding the Psychology of Us and Them
Books and essays on identity, belonging, and the quiet forces that shape human behavior

I write about the everyday psychology behind division, meaning, and connection—how ordinary people come to see the world in opposing camps, and how we might think more clearly, humanely, and wisely about ourselves and one another.

A psychology writer focused on what we overlook

My work draws on psychology, social science, and lived experience to examine the subtle mental habits that shape our relationships, institutions, and culture. I’m especially interested in the spaces where good intentions collide with fear, identity, and uncertainty—and where understanding can quietly begin again.

Books

My books explore the inner mechanics of identity, responsibility, and meaning in a divided world. They are written for thoughtful readers who want psychological depth without jargon, and insight without easy answers.

Each book combines:

• Psychological research explained clearly
• Real-world examples from everyday life
• Reflections on culture, leadership, and personal responsibility

Essays & Reflections

Alongside my books, I write essays that explore psychology as it shows up in daily life—at work, online, in families, and in the stories we tell ourselves.

Recent themes include:

• The psychology of “us vs. them”
• Identity and moral certainty
• Digital tribalism
• Responsibility, blame, and belonging
• What helps people change their minds (and what doesn’t)

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About My Work

I believe psychology is most useful when it helps us see ourselves more honestly—not when it offers slogans or shortcuts. My writing aims to slow the conversation down, name what is usually left implicit, and invite reflection rather than outrage.

I write for readers who are curious, unsettled, and willing to think past their own first reactions.

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